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I was honest with the girl I like and said im happy to be friends as she said she see's me as nothing more, and yet she calls me all the time texts me all the when I see her she is physically flirtatious pushing her tits into my arm leaning on me, and with all that! Still calls me bro! Can someone tell me why she's fucking with me like that- I don't like it.

I initiated mostly, but then realized it was like watering a dead plant when the same wasnt happening in return. Slowly and slowly you unshackle yourself and in the process learn to be more selective in the future. Its painful, but all important lessons are.

You cant tell tour friends who or who not they can be friends with. If you do you'd be the bad guy. If they know what that person did to you and they just dont care They are probably not that good friend of yours. Dont make them focal point of your life. Expand your social circle. Find your passion. Because the only person that should be important in your life is you.

People with high value going for yourselves people will spread rumors as fast as possible and will pray on your downfall i learned this in a small time city where i stood out strongly coming from a stronger city to a more softer place i was a marked target for criticism and lies they do this to the strong so once you "slip" your closed out of options and higher positions this is also a practice of Satanists

I made a mistake by making light conversation and now I wish I never shared anything. I’m just waiting for them to turn it around and get me into trouble.

I had a friend who was 5/6 years younger than me but she was raised in an environment where she had to essentially “grow up” fast. I felt for her and saw she just was caught in the wrong scene and we lived down the street from each other so she always came over. She had broke up with her bf and it was her first ever real relationship and she lost her v card to him. I understand she was hurt because he did her pretty wrong but after a whole year of me listening to her about the same thing, it got tough. I didn’t want to think she was toxic, but more so just young and needs a friend. She ended up abusing mushrooms and would come over offering me other drugs, sort of in exchange to listen to her. She would end up reaching these “breakthroughs” that she’s all better and sees her worth. Then the next week it’s back to crying about how much money she spent on him and his next girl could never be half of her. It was a weird pattern. One day she stated she no longer wanted to be friends with one of my friends over something that she refused to talk it out with her. It was weird cause she came over and dropped everything that happened and how she was feeling and all I said was that I think she actually needs to stop lurking on her ex boyfriends page and getting upset all over again. It became a cycle and It took a lot out of me to let her go because I didn’t want to let her down. But if she was just gonna continue pointing fingers at everyone but a mirror, the friendship wasnt gonna work. I only wish her the best because I know her foundation was chaotic. But I can only hope that she learns accountability.

I feel like a narcissist because I don't want to listen to the person 3 hours every day

I tried to apologize to my sister for making her upset, she refused to accept my apology. Should I become her enemy and hold a grudge?

Victims want pity and someone to save them

I needed to hear it ! Thank you !

Back burner , love this , ive done this , works

Once i was wearing my new dress that was long with long sleeves, it was one piece a long dress the relative comes up and says thats modest clothing for muslim and its covered not like the short ones that i always wear above the knee that is short .Reminder: i wear always long sleeve and top that are long up to the knees and long pants with the top if it is short because I am muslim and happy . I felt bad to hear this from her mouth . I don’t want to talk with that lady . She’s give me a unpleasant moment. Good advice Marie.

He’ll two time me eventually I didn’t even know he had a girlfriend. In over a year same church. ?? Crazy

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No profession but his behavior talking to me often.

Their players.

I am always wake till 12am to wish them and I plan birthday suprices for my closest friends...❤️🥺 Now they fogot?..I'm not blaming them if i fogot theirs bdays too...but I know i deserve more than this🥺💔❤️ Anyways..hbd to me🎉🎉🎉

A friend of mine is like this to me. But this time I didn’t called back as always when he doesn’t respond or calls. I called my bestie then and the fake friend didn’t even said sorry or anything ;( he went with two other people partying instead going out with me) i had a good day with my bestie instead of being his doormat.

Been a year since I apologized. I am now enlightened as to the type of person she is, the type I am glad I’m not around. I didn’t realize how chronically miserable she is until this happened. It’s definitely for the best.

I have a guy in my life and he always one-ups me. For instance, I just made Chicken Ragu and without saying anything else their comeback was to say that they like to cook but they make their Ragu with rabbit and nutmeg oh, and by the way I hope you didn't have to eat alone. They do this sort of thing in every conversation. If I say that I just flew to Chicago they tell me that THEY just flew to Chicago too but they flew on a private plane and stayed in a suite at The Four Seasons. Whatever it is they are always bigger, better, and more successful with it. I like your advice and will try gushing since at this point even though I want a BF this guy is just BS and I know he is pathetic and just a child so it is a game with him and I can't be serious about a relationship so he is just a lab-rat to experiment on. Thanks

I haven't watched your channel girl in a long while I miss your advice remember you had blonde hair you rocking the red I am a dishwater blonde born but colored my hair platinum the older I get infeel I have to cover up the gray more inalso remember your make-up review before I hope you are doing well

Her example is very extreme. My experience that my friend was using me as her therapist in the past 4 years and I feel like I can’t do this anymore. It feels draining and also feel down after seeing her.

i feel like you’re advice kinda stoops to their level. I don’t want to have to indulge the conversation because that doesn’t subtly tells them you’re willing to engage and they will continue to receive said attention from you.

This describes my current situation, and it really helped.

I v written everything down in my notebook and journalism saying my mum would destroy my confidence when I m with her I v found another way to deal with it and to end it with is to space out from my mum like going for walks and running it really restores my confidence it's all about being strong ❤ and the energy it brings I v moved away from medicated tablets and its all about me so I m moving on now ❤and letting all that intens negetaive energy go and closing the case just to adjourn the case so my advice too others is that doesn't have to be this way or that way 🤬 you can change it 🙂 have a think about it and write that down just like I did 👍👏👏👏👏😉🫠 Ashley says

This was really helpful. Thanks

These are not friends, let them go.

My ex friend had another friend who would act weird around this group of friends and she would mimic that behavior. I should’ve sensed at that point that she was encouraging my ex friend to talk crap about me.

Idk why this was so funny to me lol good advice tho

A girl and boy can never be friends

Competitive friends aren't your friends. 99% of society is narcissistic and it's pathetic to watch. Most people will power and empathy to be humble. health and fertility to the fullest and hopeful for all to do the same. Competitive people are ego driven. Saying I compete to the best of my ability is the same thing as saying I want to feel superior to others to the best of my ability. It doesn't make any sense. Competitive people are even in the churches each week. They use everything they do and everywhere in their life to serve their ego and bothered by seeing another person they don't like the comparison to. They are motivated to one up people out of insecurity and arrogance and their lack of willingness to have the respect and humility to hope the best for all and build others up. Competitive people pray on others downfall who did nothing wrong to them. It hurts their ego to watch someone do something that they don't like the comparison to based on social standard. There is no such thing as a tough competitor. All competitively driven people are ego driven. They aren't tough enough to humble. They can't be around others and respect their actions. They don't have the will power to see others actions as important as their own. Competitive people seek satisfaction from beating others and they don't want others to reach their potential. When a competitive person tries to prey on a good, humble person it does nothing to the humble person, rather their competitiveness just makes them a worse and worse person and they have no character or humility. Competitive people typically don't care for ideal ethical principles. Competitive people follow social standards and they want others to be insecure like them and compete for social standards and one up them and look for you to have a negative reaction for their narcissistic fuel. Competitive people lack intrinsic motivation and are usually washed up ex athletes who live through their players or kids and then they hate on people's kid and others in general who they can't use to take credit or associate themselves with. I've tried to reason with some competitive, ego driven, narcissists in the past and they can possibly change to become humble and empathetic, but for the most part it seems that they are unreachable in that they don't want to give up their competitiveness because they want to be competitively driven to satisfy their feelings of pride/ego when they beat someone. Competitive people can even give to charity, volunteer, have children, and earn a lot and the competitive person uses the person they are giving charity to to boost their ego and save face for their reputation. Competitive people can't be humble (do what they can and hopeful for others to do the same) because they competitive people aren't mentally tough enough to care about other people's health and overall positive productivity. Competitive people lack empathy. They use people to serve their ego by being motivated to one up others. Competitive people aren't your friends, they aren't good character people, they aren't for ideal ethics at all and they fit right with a vast majority of the population that seeks validation from others and strive for social standards with the motive to want others to underperform and for them to be better than others. They see others who did nothing wrong to them as an obstacle to being "successful" while the reality is that other your own and other people's actions are equally as important and everyone reaching their fullest ability and wanting all to be fully healthy, serviceable with their work toward their own or others health, humble, and reproductive. Competitive people seek comfort from having high social status, but the common denominator with all of them is that they are ego driven, lacking empathy, and insecure. Competitive people give people gifts, but they do it with the motive to one up others. They don't hope the best for all. Competitive person are only making themselves worse. If people see this realize the importance in living out work, health, fertility to the fullest and humble to want that for all. Each person in the world matters and great to see when someone is being humble and being all that they can be. Sports have no ethical value at all. women or men's sports have a lot of insecure people involved with them. Maximize results with work, health, and fertility and other positive decisions and do it humbly.

People leave me out all the time because I am disabled so rude . They think I am one of their back up friends . They tell me I am putting too much effort in my clothing.

For Me Sucks when you Celebrating your Birthday Alone I Hate it so Much 💔

Hey Marie, could you please do a video on what to do when a person keeps trying to push a boundary you set? I've this roommate who keeps slowly trying to convince and push a boundary I set to do things in her favour....we had originally set on a 50-50 compromise

but I love my best friend.. and I don’t like the other groups

This happened too me recently and one of my harassers keep in mind it was a group of five who has verbally attacked me EVERYDAY I'm not being overdramatic either and my former friend is being friendly with him they were never friends and he can't see why he should stop interacting with them when he literally told me too avoid the group before and i been crying over losing him as a friend and today unfollowed him from everything i'm not the one too ever feel sad when a friendship ends but i never been betrayed by someone i thought was my friend.

It is sadistic!

I have some friends and they are going to the mall today and I’m stuck watching these videos it hurts and I don’t have enough courage to tell them hat I acc feel left out I’m crying so hard 😢

As a Christian, I don't agree with the idea of "treating them as they treat you". But the idea of distancing yourself seems... like a good idea.

Start going out alone and being bubbly.

I have a question. This has happened to me with two different people. It's about sending an email to someone with a couple of nice photos of attached of family or a pet or whatever just in a friendly way and having the other person respond back to the email but completely ignore the photos. And I'm sure the photos went through. One person I said, "did you get the photo?" and she said no! So I resent it and got no response again. Another person, a friend, i recently sent three photos, one of myself and two of another family member. she hadn't seen us recently and it was a nice setting and I thought she's like it. She wrote back but no mention of the photos. And I rarely send photos so it's not like I'm just sending a whole bunch over and over again. The second person also ignored one photo I sent with an email several months before, a cute photo of my cat. I find this incredibly rude. Esp. since I rarely send photos. Can't they just say, nice photos. thanks. or something to be polite? I wouldn't do that to someone and don't. In fact, both of these friends have sent me many photos and I always respond. Can you give your thoughts on this? I don't want to ask them if they got it anymore. I'm sure they did. It actually really bothers me. I mean, I think it's actually pretty mean. Anyone else had this happen? How did you handle it? thank you!

Glad I found your channel. Yeah, the ones who are chronically not going to apologize or whatever are probably narcissists and just cut them loose or turn into acquaintance. I'd say to cut them off, but anyway. Good insight on the other scenario, if it's time thing, give them another chance. But I will add, I wouldn't give them too many chances.

yeah, I was going to say.. but then you said if it's a friend who cares. I agree, friends, doesn't matter too much, potential romantic person, yeah wait it out.

This video popped up when i needed it most. We hadnt seen this family member for ages and we had forgotten why, then an illness brought them 'hovering'. EVERY TIME we hung out together i felt shitty but i dismissed it as me being oversensetive, wrong every time we hung out boom there it was again. I so hope ive learned my lesson now.

Got on a new friend app. Bff. In my profile I straight up said, "if you don't contact me at least once a week you're not my friend".

Been there done that. Wrote out a big speel, tried to edit, didn't post. Basically what everyone one else said. Sad state of friendships.

I have a niece who is a serial friend poacher so weird.

Very sad for everyone unfortunately. It may lesson, but do you stay??? I love him and don’t know how to get out yet. He is so good to me then 💥 He also created a kind of scenario with little comments…then you start thinking and when you become upset or confused he says you are reading into things. Makes you feel you’re loosing your mind or questioning yourself. God help us all.😢

I have been invited to a friends birthday, my birthday is five days after his, but he has probably forgot, and he will probably not give me a gift. I usually just send him som money, but this year I don`t really feel for giving him something. He will probably not give me anything back , and he already has owed me $50 for two years. I sent him some money to buy something for me, and it was on discount and he never sent me the $50 remaining back.

Some messages literally takes seconds responding to. They just ignore it anyway. It's like they are playing some type of game. Then all of a sudden they reach out days or even weeks later when they want to tell you something that's happened in their life. And they also want to check if you are still going to reply and why you haven't been writing anything. It's like they want power and control over you. And validation of their worth. This is straight upp narcissism and they are using YOU to feed their ego. I think that the only way to handle this is to remove them from your life completely. It's so easy to fall back otherwise in the same pattern and being disappointed. When you have a limited friend list life becomes so boring. So it's hard to let go of friends you used to get along with.